For all my cd/cd-rw/dvd/dvd burners i have only gone with Lite-On. Very fast. Reliable. However if you want an extremly silent computer, sometimes these can be a little noisy when loading extreme amounts of data. Not too loud, because i can tolerate it. Try this one and see if it is what you are looking for:
http://www.newegg.com/app/ViewProductDesc.asp?description=27-106-961&depa=1
Tyler
Hi,
I'm in the market for a DVD+/- writer. Given the newbie tag i've given myself, hopefully someone will heed my S.O.S

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