I have never used a cross-over cable, but I suspect the same applies for home networking using a router.
Each computer on the network needs exactly the same user account, same username, same password, to set the network up.
The other difficulty could be firewall blocking.
Mark
I have a winxp and vista laptop. I am trying to connect both together using cross cable.
I configured a static IP 192.168.0.1 and 192.168.0.2 respectively for each system. I have also made sure that they are on the same workgroup.
Vista laptop can ping winxp laptop but winxp laptop cannot ping vista laptop.
I tried using the same OS i.e winxp it work just fine.
Pls can anyone advise. Thanks

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