When the guy said "backwards" could he possibly have been thinking of a crossover cable? Some DSL modems require a crossover ethernet cable to connect from the modem to the computer or broadband router/gateway. A crossover cable has the internal wires connected to the plug ends "backwards" compared to a standard ethernet cable. The short ethernet cable that was included in the package with the modem is, obviously, going to be the proper style, but sometimes users will arrange things in such a way that a longer cable is needed, and unwittingly grab a standard cable not realizing that the OEM cable was a crossover. If you've changed cables, try it again with the original one. If it works, then inspect the cable to see if it is crossover or standard.
If you hold the two ends of the ethernet cable side by side and look very carefully at the colors of the little wires inside the clear plastic plug, the order of the colors, left to right, will be the same for both ends of a standard cable, but the colors for pins 1/2 (usually white with orange stripe/orange) and 3/6 (usually white with green strip/green) will be reversed in one plug vs. the other end of a crossover cable. (Just for completeness, pins 4/5 are usually a blue pair and pins 7/8 are a brown pair, but the alignment of these two pairs is not a consideration in crossover vs. standard.)
If you are caught by this little nuance and still want to have the router and modem separated by more than allowed by the shorty OEM cable, you can get crossover cables in longer lengths, but study the labels on the package to get the right one; you may have to go to a specialty computer parts store (or treat your favorite techie to some nice coffee and a pastry - they really aren't hard to make, but you'll need a special cable crimper which many techies have...)
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My Father bought a D-link DI-804 because the guy at the computer store said that it's the only one that he had that would work with Bellsouth DSL.
For some reason or the other I cannot get the computer to reconize the router is there, much less the other computer that I am trying to network. (Both computers are Windows XP Professional).
The guy at the computer store said it was something to do with the cables being backwards (the other computer is in another building appox. 150 yards or so away), but how would that effect the fact that the main computer (maybe 5ft of cable away) doesn't reconize the router?
If I use cable A from computer to modem it works. If I use cable A from computer to router, then use cable B from router to motem... The computer sees something there but cannot actcess the internet.
I set up the TCP/ip ports according to the manual, and the way the computer store guy told me. It still doesn't work.
If I left any needed information out, please just ask. I have been working with this for 3 days, and I still can't get it to work. This is my first time setting up a network. An I have to have it done by midnight tomorrow night. ![]()

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