Try putting your DVR's local IP into the DMZ of the router to the internet.
Sorry but if this is too advanced (the DMZ setting) you may have to have a network technician come in.
Bob
I have a First Alert DVR security camera and DVR that I am having difficulty accessing from the Web. The setup is as follows:
Internet Service provided by local cable company via a Cisco DPC3848VM gateway.
That feeds a Netgear WNDR 4350 wireless router.
The DVR is connected to a Netgear extension unit acting as a bridge that feeds the signal to the router. The extension also provided WiFi to the area of the home where is it located.
I have the DVR set on a static IP using port 8080
So far I have opened port 8080 on the Cisco and setup port forwarding from the netgear to the DVR.
When I attempt to log in from an outside network I access the login page for the Cisco.
So basically I am in the front door but can't get to the needed device.
Anyone have any suggestions?

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