Well I think you might be stuck with a 5.1 system that has the DVD player built-in. You need a receiver as well as speakers and, as far as I know, all the HTIB (home theater in a box) 5.1 speakers+receiver sets include DVD players.
As for recommendations, look into Onkyo products. They are routinely the most recommended HTIB sets on a budget similar to yours. Here are their options: http://www.onkyousa.com/prod_class.cfm?class=Systems
The only problem is that at your budget, you will not find any HTIB systems that support the newest DTS-HD and TrueHD sound formats found on Blu-rays, so you will be stuck with regular DTS and DD5.1 sound.
Hello,
I want to build an audio system that is great for both tv/dvd & music. Currently I'm just running the audio out of my tv and into a standard analog stereo system. But I know that my new TV will have digital audio only. I also want to add a Logitech Squeezebox Duet into the mix. I already have a blu-ray player I'm happy with. I'd like 5.1 channel surround sound, and HDMI in & out ports.
The problem I'm finding is that most home theater sets include a dvd player and the one's that don't are outrageously expensive. I'm looking for a good mid-level system that supports digital audio, doesn't include a dvd player, will support the squeezebox, has 5.1 channels, has HDMI in & out, and is around $500. Am I dreaming, or is there something out there for me? Any help greatly appreciated.
thanks,
betsy

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