But I doubt if this is the cause of your troubles. My Zonealarm firewall is smart enough to deactivate the Windows XP firewall when running. I can't imagine Norton doesn't.
Anyway, just try what happens if you disable the one and if you disable the other. Can you tell your results?
Kees

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