"I won't be doing any gaming or video editing" is where I'd expect the quads to shine. What I've found on the apple is they run Windows better than most laptops. So that's a fine choice. The battery Apple uses is a knockout too.
About ram. We tested 7 on 512MB and 1GB and it booted only a bit faster on 1GB. Same story for XP. Vista however had us chafing for 4GB 64 BIT and tossing it out of the airplane window to see how fast it could go. My point here is we found XP or 7 to run well at 1GB so you have 4 times that with each stop being a diminishing return. If this is for bragging rights, move right up to 8 or more GB.
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I've been looking to buy a new laptop for a couple weeks now and I'm having trouble deciding what to get. I won't be doing any gaming or video editing, but I'd still like a powerful/fast computer that'll last me at least 3 yrs. My coworkers tell me Macs are the way to go (and I'd really like one) but are they worth the $400+ premium? Is there anything significantly different other than the OS? I've been able to find HP computers with the same configuration minus the graphics card for around $1100.
Another issue I've run into is the quad core vs duo core debate. My main concern is are we on the brink of having quad core laptops becoming mainstream? (So I'm more up to date if I get it.) I know HP & Dell already have a few laptops w/ the i7 processor and I've read Macbook Pros are going to be getting those within the next couple months (which will create another debate).
I've been looking at:
HP 2.66 ghz Intel Core 2 Duo processor, 4 gb RAM, 1066 Mhz FSB
HP 1.6 Ghz i7 processor, 4 gb RAM, 1333 Mhz FSB
MBP 2.53 Ghz Intel Core 2 Duo, 4 gb RAM, 1066 FSB
Should I also think about upgrading to 6 Gb RAM? Another brand?
A lot of questions & concerns. Any adivce/opinions/help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!

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