I see from your post here that you are already asking about recording web cams.

You also mention in that discussion that you are well past the point of reconciliation when you talk of your wife.

Whilst I sympathize, I am just not sure that these forums should be used for marital problems, or for advice on spying on other people.

I can only suggest, for what it is worth, that you seek professional and official help, perhaps legal advice from a lawyer.

I am locking this discussion, and also the one linked to above. If you feel I have missed something in your posts, you can send an alert through the "Report Offensive Post" button.