...Basically, another computer shouldn't infect you on a network if you set up good security measures, (current antivirus and antispyware programs) and stop using "File and Printer Sharing for Microsoft Network".
We need to know more about your computer...specifically your operating system, do you use a firewall, etc.
In the meantime, if you're using Windows 2000 and XP, then you need to make sure there is a good password on the 'Administrator" log on..(On Windows XP HOME, the "Administrator" log on is a "hidden" user and must be accessed in Safe Mode but the password can be changed while in "normal" Windows. If you have Windows XP, let us know.)
You should be able to turn of "File and Printer Sharing" using the instructions below:
Windows 9.x/ME: Click on Start-Settings-Control Panel, double click on the "Network" icon. When that loads, on the "Configuration" tab, look in the white network components section and click once on the "File and Printer Sharing for Microsoft Networks" to highlight it, then click on the "Remove" button and follow the prompts to remove the service.
Windows 2000/XP: Click on Start-Settings-Control Panel, (or Start-Control Panel in XP), then double click on the "Networks and Dial Up Connections" icon, then find your type of connection type being used currently, either "Local Area Network" or "Dial-Up", then RIGHT click on it, choose "Properties". You should then be able to see the network components that are installed on the computer. If "File and Printer Sharing for Microsoft networks" is listed, click once on it to highlight it, then UNCHECK the box to disable it. Click on "Apply", then OK.
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If you don't already have them, please download, install, update, then run the free spyware removal tools from the links below. Keep them updated and run full system scans with them frequently.:
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of our computers are using the same wireless network (I think that's what it's called?) If he gets a virus from his downloading, my computer will get one too right? What can I do to protect my computer? I already have McAfee anti-virus, is that enough? Should I get a regular router instead of using the family's wireless router, will that help? And I can't ask him to stop, his parents are letting me live with them rent-free
Thanks for reading.

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