MSN Messenger supplied emotes are at http://messenger.msn.com/Resource/Emoticons.aspx
The MSN Messenger icon (M) or (m) might have a butterfly?
And if you add or create such then you would have to remember where you got it from.
Bob
I am referring to the URL for www.msn.com the butterfly that is shown, there is "keystrokes" to create this icon/emote as you do for other "chat emotes".Pardon me for this off subject question.

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