Trillian Pro (paid version) supports webcam. Been a while but I think it costs about $25US. Not sure if it supports webcam if other party is using MSN but assume it would since they say if supports webcam.
Hope you get this worked out.
Glenn
i was wonderin if theres a program like trillian that has MSN but also supports webcam features. my mom wont let me get MSN but will let me get Trillian but Trillian won't do webcams with MSN so I don't want that. is there anything else?

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