I use the composite out lead (red, white and yellow RCA plugs) Red and white into a RCA to 3.5mm plug. This is plugged into a FiiO portable headphone amplifier and then to headphones. Works for record and playback.
How to monitor audio from the camera side of things while playing back? So obvious- but not. Seriously, you cannot?

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