I had this drive that had no drive letter and the safely remove icon was absent until I got the drive partitioned and formatted.
The only reason I add this to your google results is that it's not in the top 100 reasons.
Bob
Hi.
Yes, I have googled this issue. They all seem to say the same things; Use the command line, check hidden icons, select 'show all icons'.
I have no icon. It isn't in the 'customize' dialog, or the 'system icons' dialog.
The command line does work.
Surely somebody on this (or a nearby) planet knows what causes this. If it is you, please share!
-jimc

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