If the anchor in the bottom right is what you want then just right click on the player while in skin mode and put a check beside show anchor....then click ok that option is on the "Player" Tab
If that is not what you want then you will have to be more specific about "menu"
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...I really like that small menu you get when you minimize Media Player 9 BUT since I reinstalled WIndows I must have accidently turned off that feature when it first prompted me... How do I turn it back on? I've looked everywhere - I don't see it in settings anywhere.

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