It looks like you desire a 5X3 Matrix switcher that has multiple formats(2 VGA, 1 Bluray, 1 DVD, 1 VHS to 2 LCD TVs and 1 projector.) A product that matches your exact needs may be hard to find. To be more cost effective, I would pick 1 format and work with that. A VGA Matrix switcher shouldn't be hard to find, with or without audio. But that will likely eliminate a few of your sources. Is that an option? Maybe nixing the VCR?
I am not too familiar with matrix switchers but I need one. The ones with HDMI are too pricey. Anyone have any suggestions on one and the best way to wire everything? I'm looking to connect 2 VGA, 1 Bluray, 1 DVD, 1 VHS to 2 LCD TVs and 1 projector.