When you can't figure that out, you would call your Lotus office support.
I think this is it -> http://www-01.ibm.com/software/lotus/products/notes/ (see the support link)
Hello all,
Am responsible for administrating lotus accounts on a lotus server (very recent). One of my user said she want to have her out of office feature enabled since she will be on vacation soon.
i've performed the steps found on the internet, ie
Open her mail database
mail> more>select out of office>then enter the date details
however am getting the
out of office email notification: Off ,processing request to enable.
I have been trying this since yesterday, but nothing to do. Feature is not being enabled at all.
please help.

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