This sounds like you are asking for a 360 display and not the original Xbox. I had both and the first didn't do VGA without something special. And my new 360 is all HDMI. Why VGA? And about the headphone, why is that on the display? Something's odd here.
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Hi I am looking for a screen with VGA, HDMI (micro and regular), a/v, headphone hole, and USB ports. As for size anything larger than 15 in. Ideas are very welcome.

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