My wife and I are shopping for Bluetooth Earpieces. We both have Iphones, with hers being a 3G and mine the 3Gs. I am currently using the BT from Apple but it's 2 years old and starting to show wear and tear. I also have a Jawbone 2 but it doesn;t seem to activate the voice dialing of the Iphone. My wife has small ears and after trying several different ones, she finds the buds that go into the ear are just too uncomfortable for her use. Can someone suggest a BT that does not fit inside the ear canal, is comfortable, can sync to more than one phone and is super comfortable?
Thanks!

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