cthl,
Sorry to hear you're having trouble.
The SHOP Mode can kick in if the MENU button on the bezel is pushed in for a period of time. Would there be small hands or a nearby object that might be pressing against the menu button, or a nearby external speaker? If that happens, check to see if there is a response light, or if tapping the menu button with your finger causes functionality to return.
Since you mentioned it, have you tried removing the Wii connection to see if the symptom happens without it? If the Wii was causing it, this would be the first time I've heard of that, but naturally with the nature of electronics, it's difficult to rule anything out 100% of the time.
--HDTech
My tv has worked perfectly for the couple years I've owned it, but just recently it started resetting itself out of the blue even while in use. All settings are lost, reverts to "Store Demo", and this last time wouldn't even let me input any commands (had to unplug it for awhile, thankfully worked afterwards). I'll reset it using the hold Exit button thing, turn it back to Home Use, and that works... for a couple weeks or so, then tv beeps and resets again, repeat.
I'll add that I haven't ever updated firmware, if thats relevant. Also added a Wii (the only change to the setting) around the same time as when these issues started, just mentioning that if by some off chance that that isn't just a coincidence.
Thanks

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