I doubt that you will find a tripod that will meet those requirements.
I found a tripod made of carbon fiber that will support 11 pounds and weighs under 3 pounds, but without a pan-head.
It is made of carbon fiber and costs $264.
I?m looking for a tripod that can support 12lbs, but with the pan head included only weighs 3lbs or less. Do they make such a beast? I?ve searched and searched, but came up empty. Any help would be highly appreciated. Thanks in advance!