I found such a light with this search.
https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&as_q=iphone+missed+call+reminder
MY ANDROID PHONE HAD A LIGHT THAT WOULD BLINK WHEN A MESSAGE OR MISSED CALL HAD COME IN . ANY APP OR FIX FOR THIS WITH OUT TURNING ON THE SCREEN FOR IPHONE 4?

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