If there was "no contact" it could have depended on who was in the tub first, If he "joined "her, and tried to seduce her with words, I can see how that could have "ruined her life and family. There was no information re: where or whose hot tub it was, nor if her age was known.
Another theory could be that he pontificated a lot about "family values" and morality as some with a past have done, and she found it too hypocritical.
Regardless, I think that "smart" is a better adjective than "courageous" to describe his coming clean.
Angeline

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