You'll need to organise your music. In iTunes there's a control, Keep Files Organised - and this will rename your files to have track numbers at the front. If you let iTunes reorganise based on that, the tracks will play back correctly in the SE phone after sync by iTuneMyWalkman. Playlists - you're SOL on iTMW.
Try Synctunes too.
I wondered what is the best way to put my iTunes onto my SE phone. I have tried 'iTunemywalkman' but that doesn't import my playlists, and my music is all out of order
Any ideas?
Cheers
Marcus

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