that I will just give you the link on how to do it.
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I have a desktop dell, xp, and recently bought a new dell laptop. I have an itunes account for my 3 gen ipod on the desktop. I also just bought my wife her first ipod. I would like to know how to save my ipod liabary, transfer it to new laptop, and then set up new account for wife and allow both of us to access each others music? can this be done? i also bought new external hard drive that will be attached to new laptop

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