And have no need to know as that is personal, and to be revealed only by choice.
But I doubt you are Catholic due to your statement about divorce.
Catholics can divorce. But if they have been married in the Catholic Church, they are not to remarry unless one dies. Marriage in the Church is a Sacrament. There are circumstances , however, in which those marriages can be annulled.
I think you might agree that half of the marriages in the US ending in divorce isn't anything of which to be proud.
As to birth control, that is a man-made edict. Personally, I don't think that disobeying that edict is wrong.
Yes, there are some edicts that are medieval. I assume that changes will come with time, but not just to suit the times.
Angeline
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