Don't know her last name, but if it's the only one I know of, she'll contact you.
The circumstances are none of my business, but here in New Mexico your family arrangements are the new normal. Hang in there.
i saw she was sick in 2016, just hoping all is well with her...
on my side of the pond life is interesting, more so when your almost 10 year old grand-daughter is also your foster child
i think Toni has my mail but would appreciate it if one of the mods could 'refresh' the memory banks...