Can you give us some details on the system? I also found this article on RAM and Windows:
http://www.geek.com/windows-xp-maximum-memory/
I have a user with a dell precision 690 and xeon processor with 4gb of ram and windows xp 32bit OS. the bios shows all of the ram but it doesnt show in windows can anyone help or at least tell me why.

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