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I need your advice. I have been in an abusive one sided relationship for the past 4 years and I do not know how to get out of it. I have tried to end this relationship in the past, but I am weak. Every time I try to walk away Mr V promises me that if I stay he will give me what I desire. So I stay. But the promise keeps getting put off. I hear "March 23 for sure" or "March, I didn't say march I said April first or was it 'spring'". He keeps telling me that he will dump that other harlot crackberry, so I just wait. Yes wait for the day when I can, talk on the phone, get my e-mail, download apps and check my facebook contacts on the train. My friend Steve J calls me a fool, tells me I am wasting the best texting years of my life waiting for him, but he just doesn't understand how he "services" me in all the right places. So please Abby, tell me should I wait for him to give me what I nexusly desire or do I move on to move on to a slightly bar challenged provider who has what I want now.
desperate for a great big red smartphone