You can use
Anapod (most recommended)
http://www.redchairsoftware.com/anapod/featpw.php
Foobar (plug in)
http://www.foobar2000.org/
Winamp (plug in)
http://www.winamp.com/
Rockbox (you'll have gapless playback with this option)
http://www.rockbox.org/twiki/bin/view/Main/IpodPort
For more information on iPods try here.
http://forums.ilounge.com/
People will actually give you helpful answers there.
I am thinking about buying a Ipod Nano but before I buy one Ineed to know if I have to use itunes with it. i have tried itunes before and I personally like Windows Media Player better and can you drag and drop files? I know some of you don't suggest buying this player but all i want is some answers not a persuasive essay on why I shouldn't buy this player. Please and Thank You

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