With the existence of proxy servers everyone has the ability to make it look like they are anywhere in the world. You could ask him/her to e-mail you, the look up the IP address located in the e-mail's headers, but note that I have successfully shown myself as being in Japan, Australia, Argentina, etc, none of which I've ever been to. Outside of government channels, it's usually a dead end.
can you please tell me when talking on msn messnger is there anyway i can find out where they are talking from or who they are? as i have a person i want to find out where they are they say they know me but will not tell me who they are lol. thank you.