Keep in mind that your cellular carrier is usually the one to release the update and not the manufacturer. I am using a Motorola Droid Razr that now has ICS since May. I simply got a notification from Verizon to download the update when it was available to my phone. Be patient, it will happen. If you can't wait for your provider to release it, you can install it manually at your own risk.
Has anyone received the ICS update on their Droids yet?? I read that Motorola has started to update the Droid 4 to ICS.. ICS Update for Motorola Droid 4 is Now Pushing Out

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