What is the setup in Bermuda. Are both machines running the same OS.
Does Mumsie actually have her microphone connected at her end. Could it be that iChat is not receiving any audio from anywhere and so it grays out the menu?
Have you tested you Audio/Video setup with anyone else? Did it work?
I am trying to use my isight to video chat from canada with my mom in bermuda. She is using AIM 5.9.
Everything works fine (video,text) except for the audio is greyed out in my ichat. She can see and hear me, but i cannot hear her.
Does anyone know what the problem is?
Everything worked fine when I tested everything in canada.