How do you mean "control" and 'distant"?
Amyway, why not ask the maker of your HiFi-installation (or whatever you use to listen to music) if they have an iPhone app that can serve as remote for their device? Or do I understand you wrong?
Kees
I need a lossless audio transmission Bluetooth receiver, I enjoy music, I can not stand defective sound, I use the iphone, so what kind of receiver is suitable for me

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