underlining importance of "first impressions". I know that this is probably a poor analogy but would say that dents that turn up later in one's automobile tend to have less impact on a person's love for it. One that comes with noticable scars is often considered as expendable. Even if repairs take place, the memory of the defects does not go away.
the unpleasantness thrown his way. It will subside eventually, though not permanently. Patience, a vacation occasionally, and knowing who your opponents are helps to keep the frustration in check.
Rob

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