Get a Gmail account, it's FREE. the Gmail account can be accessed with any email program. I would use Mozilla Thunderbird but you could set it up with Outlook Express. When setting it up, have Outlook Express leave the message on the server. Do the same for the second account. You'd both get the emails. Your options would be leave them on your hard drive or to delete them from your computer as they come in. If you happen to get a spam email, go to the webserver and check the email and click the drop down menu and report as spam. You'll never see that email again. You may also want to check the spam filter from time to time. Once in a great while one of your clients emails may accidentally go there. Sure beats using AOL.

Everything with Gmail is FREE and you have a 6gig email account.