Such a program comes with the modem. What you want in your new modem is the CALL WAITING feature. Be sure to return a modem as defective if you bought it and it didn't hang up.
Bob
I need a program that will kick me off the net when a incoming phone call is detected.
I have call waiting on the phone....
hope there is such a program....
and no, I cannot use a phone answering software, as the phone line is used by several room mates, and none of them is allowed into my room, let alone touch my computer system.
Thanks for any help you can provide.

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