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Nov 14, 2003 5:47AM PST

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Re:They HAVE the same rights as everybody else.
Nov 17, 2003 3:08AM PST

If they can do the same things anyway then why deny them the right to a civil marraige? Is there a right to marraige? Is the government allowed to enact whatever strictures possible on who can marry, when, where, and for what reasons?

Dan

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Before advocating something...
Nov 17, 2003 3:18AM PST

...please learn how to spell it, and I'm not talking about just your last post. Marriage isn't from the government it is from God. Nevertheless it is the Government's duty and responsibility to encourage and protect such institution, this is why in past we had laws for alienation of affection, for child support, distinctions between legitimate and ******* children, rights per stirpes, and so forth. A couple of guys humpin' and pumpin' nor double ***** lesbians a marriage make.

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Fortunately
Nov 17, 2003 3:32AM PST

I live in a country where the government is not responsible for enforcing the will of god.

Thanks for the spelling correction.

Dan

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You live in a country founded on Judeo/Christian values...
Nov 17, 2003 3:49AM PST

unfortunately you appear to have failed to absorb much in your History classes.

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Values change.
Nov 17, 2003 4:05AM PST

Those who live in the past are gonna get smacked in the *** by the future.

Dan

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Nov 17, 2003 4:13AM PST
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denial won't get you very far.
Nov 17, 2003 5:22AM PST

but I do agree with "values change"--Liberal values have changed so much that:

1. deviancy is apparently desired as a norm.

2. criminals are not responsible for their actions, society is

3. The socialist mantra regarding from each to each isn't even adequate because need needs to be changed to want

4. aid and comfort to the enemy isn't criminal

Yes, "values" change--IF you can call the changes values!

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NT - Try to stay on topic.
Nov 17, 2003 5:48AM PST

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(NT) - Don't ask for too much Dan! ;-)
Nov 18, 2003 4:56PM PST

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I was. You having comprehension problems again? (NT)
Nov 18, 2003 10:45PM PST

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This is a reply to James
Nov 17, 2003 3:26AM PST

The "7 post rule" kicked in with his last post.

Marriage isn't from the government it is from God.

Really? What about civil ceremonies? What about atheists and agnostics? Should they not be allowed to marry either? And if marriage isn't from the government, why should the government be able to legislate who can marry and who can't?

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NT- Who is greater? God or Government? Which of those two are ALWAYS right?
Nov 17, 2003 3:31AM PST

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Re: Who is greater? God or Government?
Nov 17, 2003 11:10PM PST

Hi, James.

>>Which of those two are ALWAYS right?<<
Despite the claims of certain religious leaders, humans are often mistaken when claiming to speak for God.
-- Dave K.
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LOL Dave....
Nov 18, 2003 10:01AM PST

Don't forget those who think they ARE God!!! LOL!

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Neither!
Nov 18, 2003 10:56PM PST

After the Great Flood, didn't God admit that it wasn't the best idea?

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Matter of fact the answer is YES...
Nov 17, 2003 3:46AM PST

Have you tried to marry your sister or first cousin lately? Government says No, you may not. Tried to marry your other two girlfriends? Not only is your present wife against it but the government says no also.

There are good reasons for such laws and I can't think of a single good reason to legitimize sexual deviants.

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Re:Matter of fact the answer is YES...
Nov 17, 2003 4:02AM PST

Would you feel better if gays got married under the condition that they participate in no sexual activities? That would end your complaint on the basis of their sexual techniques. Since you don't want sexual deviants to get married should we force all couples to agree not to participate in any deviant congress before they are wed? We'll list the acceptable practices in a booklet, or a pamphlet. OK, it'll be an index card. Wink

Dan


Or how about the idea that sex participated in by consenting adults is no one else's business?

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Re:Re:Matter of fact the answer is YES...
Nov 18, 2003 10:51PM PST

Do you really lack comprehension of simple terms Dan?

You must or you would not ask such questions as I have made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that homosexuals should not be allowed to marry in any form or fashion.

Nature should be allowed to take its course which would simply eliminate the homosexual problem. Allowing them to continue and even adopt children simply exacerbates the problem and provides "training" and continuity.

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Re:Re:Re:Matter of fact the answer is YES...
Nov 18, 2003 11:16PM PST

I know a lot of simple terms, Ed. Fairness. Freedom. Love. Family.

Just because the terms are simple does not meat that they should be limited to the definitions proposed by the simpleminded and narrowminded.

Homosexual 'problem'? Why does that phrasing sound so familiar? It's too bad we can't tell who the homosexuals are just by looking at them or by their names. That way we could go around some night and smash all of their windows. Or has that been done?

Dan

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Re: Matter of fact the answer is YES...
Nov 19, 2003 9:03PM PST

Hi, Dan.

>>Homosexual 'problem'? Why does that phrasing sound so familiar? <<
In fact, it's a very apt comparison, as homosexuals also were sent to the death camps, but wore pink triangles on their uniforms.
-- Dave K.
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It should be familiar because it is a problem...
Nov 20, 2003 12:26AM PST

it is a cancerous growth that has eroded moral values and it is detrimental to good social order.

NAMBLA is following closely and necrophiliacs can't be far behind.

"Is it legal to marry your widow's sister in California?" won't be a "fun" question to see if you are paying attention.

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Re:It should be familiar because it is a problem...
Nov 20, 2003 12:59AM PST

It sounds familiar because it is just the phrasing that was used to initiate the final solution to the jewish problem in Germany.

Dan

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Again responding to James (dang forum limitation bug.....)
Nov 17, 2003 4:00AM PST

What does your question have to do with the questions I asked you?

How do civil ceremonies and atheists/agnostics fit in with your assertion that marriage is something from God?

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Re:Again responding to James (dang forum limitation bug.....)
Nov 17, 2003 4:08AM PST
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Re:Again responding to James (dang forum limitation bug.....)
Nov 17, 2003 4:20AM PST

Ah...but doesn't what is "permitted" vary according to what faith you happen to believe in? The Jewish faith doesn't permit eating pork products but most other faiths allow it. Both viewpoints are believed to be God's law by those who hold them.

And since one general point of agreement among the major faiths is the requirement that you believe in God, again, where does that leave atheists? God generally doesn't "permit" people not to believe in Him, so should atheists be allowed to marry?

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Not quite correct.
Nov 17, 2003 4:17PM PST
Clk here to reply

As I recall the eating of pork was not forbidden except to the Jews. Gentiles living among them were allowed to eat things the Jews were restricted on. Another was if any beast was found dead or torn in the field, a Jew could not eat of it, but was supposed to give it to his Gentile neighbors, free of charge I believe.
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God and atheist
Nov 17, 2003 4:21PM PST
Reply here

Atheist and Agnostics were described as "the fool has said in his heart there is NO God". His foolishness was condemned, but oddly the atheist seems to be less condemned in the Scriptures than those who followed false gods or idols.