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Nov 14, 2003 5:47AM PST

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The Bibles standards haven't changed.....
Nov 18, 2003 12:41PM PST

The same today as yesterday! It is man's immorality that has changed! you can not make right no matter what the times are, what God has said is a sin! Yes I believe literally every word in the Bible, the Word of God! Mary was a Virgin!

Glenda

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Good for you!
Nov 18, 2003 4:52PM PST

In that case I assume that you respect those who believe every word literally of the Quran too...

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Maybe because it goes AGAINST ......
Nov 16, 2003 11:32AM PST

what the Church stands for??

Glenda

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Re:Maybe because it goes AGAINST ......
Nov 17, 2003 10:47PM PST

Very possible and almost sure that is the case. But I find it strange that the entire society is developing toward more tolerance (in some cases at least and some societies) and the church remain as fundamentalist as it was 50 years ago, especially the Catholic church.

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Especially the Catholic church ... Maybe because it has to be
Nov 18, 2003 1:13AM PST

especially careful about any changes. After all since it is the only church in existence that was established by Jesus and the apostles, the whole world looks to the Catholic Church for direction and guidance.

Oh boy! Ducking for the slings and arrows that are on the way! LOL

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Maybe so but the Jewish faith came directly from Gof the Father
Nov 18, 2003 1:25AM PST

and Jesus was born into this religion.

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Good point Mary Kay! My bad. In fact our religious standards
Nov 18, 2003 2:01AM PST

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are referred to as JUDEO-CHRISTIAN. I should have known better.

Going to stand in the corner for a while now.
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To be fair, Mary Kay, my response was specifically directed at what
Nov 18, 2003 2:08AM PST

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Charlie said specifically about the Catholic Church.
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Touche' Rosalie. (NT)
Nov 18, 2003 3:07AM PST

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NT - My god can beat up your god! ;-)
Nov 18, 2003 2:15AM PST

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Dan

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Maybe, Dan, you would like to take a shot at this. I'm looking for
Nov 18, 2003 3:01AM PST

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a sensible answer, I really want to know.

What would society use as a yardstick for it's behavior or moral code if not religion/bible/God?
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Yardstick? There isn't one.
Nov 18, 2003 3:33AM PST

If we try to use a religion we'll have to choose which to use and subjegate the nonbelievers. If we have the hubris to try to enact the will of god we'll have to go to war over what prophet is correct.

Not a yardstick, but a principle. We should enact only those laws that are necessary to provide for the functioning of society and the protection of the populace. There's plenty to argue about in that statement without invoking a deity or deities.

Dan

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Wasn't trying to invoking a deity. Laws, laws, laws, laws ......
Nov 18, 2003 4:55AM PST

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Laws written by man are what got us to the place we are now (in this discussion). We don't have enough laws now to protect the populace or to please them. There would never be enough laws to protect the populace. They are too easily broken. Laws won't cut it, we can't depend on laws. What about a standard to live by?

Humm... yardsticks, standards ... sounds like we're building a house doesn't it?
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Re:Wasn't trying to invoking a deity. Laws, laws, laws, laws ......
Nov 18, 2003 6:27AM PST

Laws written, or handed down, by gods didn't have us in a better situation. I think we're doing ok for a civilization in transition. These are always the most difficult times.

I'm not sure what you're looking for as a standard to live by. Law are only in place to govern how people interact, not how they live. That is a different question.

How you live must be directed by your heart, your mind, and your connection to the universe. Most people find that this is sufficient to making their way in the world. Some individuals find themselves going on a divergent course. Among these you will find artists and geniuses, prophets and lunatics.

Is that anything like an answer?

Dan

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It's been a learning experience.
Nov 18, 2003 7:05AM PST

If I have learned anything from this discussion it's why a Theocracy is a bad way to run a country. I can now understand why the people living under one want to kill each other all the time. Not to mention people in other countries as well.

However, I do believe that our laws have been based on the Judeo-Christian tradition, basically the 10 commandments. Now there is this big push to separate state and church to the point that anything to do with the church and religion is to be purged from society's laws, public buildings ....

OH MY what about public libraries?!!? Will bibles and religious books be banned? Might this be a cause for book burning?!? No I'm not trying to be funny it just seems to follow.

Anyway, back to laws and conduct. I have a hard time understanding how any concept of religious law can be kept out of the laws we make for society and still have a stability law system. Or society.
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Maybe better said, Dan...
Nov 18, 2003 3:33AM PST

Dan, considering that the Bible wasn't written in English, maybe a funnier joke might be my translation can beat up your translation.
A lot of translations can beat up some of those greek translations, grin. I wonder what Moses would have said about those horns on that Michangelo statue?

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Re:Maybe better said, Dan...
Nov 18, 2003 4:06AM PST

Moses had no sense of humor and a bad temper. That is, if we are to believe the elightened word of DeMille.

Wink

Dan

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Nov 18, 2003 4:19AM PST
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What?!?! What did I say?!?
Nov 18, 2003 7:27AM PST

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Re:What?!?! -- One of those pesky duplicates
Nov 18, 2003 7:55AM PST

Sorry for the confusion, Rosalie.

I usually post a reply saying it was a dupe deletion, but not everyone does that. There seems to be a new occasion for dupe generation, as they're happening more frequently again Sad
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Who knows?! But don't forget,...
Nov 18, 2003 8:07AM PST

...if you get any literary amusements from it, drop a copy over at TV in my Joke thread.

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NT- Who is your god?
Nov 18, 2003 9:10AM PST

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Avoid the trap, James.
Nov 18, 2003 10:59PM PST

Try not to become as humorless and sour as many fanatics can be.

Dan

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Re: Maybe so but the Jewish faith came directly from God the Father
Nov 18, 2003 3:37AM PST

Hi, Mary Kay.

And you'll recall what Christ had to say about the established Jewish religion when He came? Devoted to the letter of the Law while ignoring its spirit. I suspect He'd say much the same of the institutional Catholic Church if He came back today.
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Don't worry Rosalie!
Nov 18, 2003 3:54AM PST

I know what your values are and how much you do for those in need! You're a good woman!

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Re:Re:Maybe because it goes AGAINST ......
Nov 18, 2003 11:27PM PST
Very possible and almost sure that is the case. But I find it strange that the entire society is developing toward more tolerance (in some cases at least and some societies) and the church remain as fundamentalist as it was 50 years ago, especially the Catholic church.

Posted by: C. Thunell Posted on: 11/18/2003 6:47 AM


Tolerance does not mean unconditional acceptance.

Some things are not good like more tolerance for:
- disrepecting others
- demanding rights without responsibilities
and less tolerance for:
- dissenting views (labeled as racist, fanatic, homophobic,...)
- traditional values
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Re:Is the church that stubborn?
Nov 18, 2003 12:25PM PST
Couldn't the priest just say "I hereby pronounce you two married"? Or is the church too stubborn to do that?

If he/she wanted to they could but I suspect many of the unions will be performed by the Justice Of The Peace since these unions are outside the beliefs of many religions. Churches should remain free to marry or deny service based on their own beliefs and should be free to perform their services accordingly.

OTOH, the JOTP could pronounce them married or joined or 'Man and Husband' or 'Woman and wife'. It shouldn't matter much and it should be left up to the community served by that JOTP.

Just out of curiosity I wonder how many sailors will be successful in getting their Captain to marry them...
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RE: Just out of curiosity , Clay....
Nov 18, 2003 1:28PM PST

On the just out of curiosity question, I'd say none. The old belief about a ship's Captain having the power to legally marry people is not valid. Unless of course, he happens so be a minister type as well as a ship's Captain.

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I now pronounce you married
Nov 14, 2003 10:43PM PST

A male partner is called husband.
A female partner is called wife.

This is not difficult stuff.

Dan

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Why should either of you care ...
Nov 14, 2003 11:41PM PST

... how two people deem to be declared in any marriage ceremony. Most churches these days allow great latitude in what traditional rituals are included in the ceremony. My husband and I worked with our priest to customize our service for our union and taking into account the general makeup of those who celebrated with us.

I gotta say, I did cringe when my (PhD in science educated) cousin promised to "submit" in her marriage vows, but, that's her choice. In many traditional Ukrainian Catholic ceremonies the bride is blessed and prays to the Virgin Mary (w/o meaning to be disrespectful I call this the blessing of the virgin sacrifice) -- it was a bit bizarre when my FIL's once-divorced "older" (as I understand this ritual it is in part a blessing for bearing children and their marriage is certainly past that phase!) second wife went through this part of it! But again, their choice. In this country nobody is forced to belong to the church of their rearing -- we did not marry in the Uke or Roman Catholic Church for a number of reasons. The Episcopal Church where we married was definitely more liberal than others I approached when seeking a church for our wedding, but we were pronounced husband and wife.

I think you two are going a little overboard with James' short (and I believe a bit sarcastic) comment on what to call them.