"I want to know how to hook up my notebook to my computer to copy a dvd."
Why is such a hookup needed? DVDSHRINK will copy that DVD without another PC in the mix.
As to recording TV, you need a video capture card or such and nothing is noted in your post.
Note that I will not offer any support for DVDSHRINK or tell you where to get it. Don't ask.
Bob
I just bought a HP Notebook zv5260us with a dvd recorder. I want to know how to hook up my notebook to my computer to copy a dvd. Do I need to buy any additional accessories? Also, my notebook runs on windows xp and my computer runs on windows me, does that make a difference. OR would it be easier to hook it up to my TV and record and all of the same questions apply (do I need to purhase anything else)to copy this dvd.

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