It does not seem that there is a cache that remains on your system after
the IM chat is terminated. If the chat is not saved there is no
record.
You might try the following to see if there's a cache. While IM'ing,
type a memorable phrase and send it. While keeping your 'buddy'
on-line, go to Start > Find > Files > Containg Text and search for files
containing the phrase. You may also want to click on the Advanced tab
to select a narrow date range to speed the search. I was not able to do
this on my system (couldn't find a buddy on-line), but I would not be
surprised if you found a file containing the phrase. After all you can
click on save after chatting for 30 minutes and the entire conversation
is saved. Now close IM and repeat the search. This time you'll
probably find no file.
Have you considered contacting AOL? I searched their FAQ's but found
nothing there.
Sorry about your problem and good luck.
Aloha
I have been told that it is possible to archive instant messages, but no one has been able to tell me how to do this.
What I would like to do is be able to retrieve the instant messages that are being sent by as well as to my child. She uses AOL Instant Messenger.
I have parental controls on my computer that allow me to see who she is IM'ing as well as how many IM's they send to each other. I want to be able to retrieve the content of those messages.
If anyone can help me it would be greatly appreciated.
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