Hi, there are some things you can do to make Windows 8.1 look more alike to Windows 7 and earlier versions. However, if you really want the same user experience you had with Windows Vista or 7, then you'll need to install a third-party application or wait for the next version of Windows which will bring the start menu back for desktop users.
I would recommend you try out this tool which is free and will let you get the Windows start menu experience back, round button and all: http://www.iobit.com/iobitstartmenu8.php
Hope that helps!
How can I make Windows 8.1 Desktop look like and earlier version of windows with the windoes start ball on the bottom left corner etc.?
Thank you.
Jerry

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