If it the sender shows "unknown", there is little to nothing you can do to find the sender, short of a court subpoena and that is no guarantee. Works the same as if if someone calls your phone and blocks their caller ID. Sorry, but those are the facts.
<span id="INSERTION_MARKER"> My boyfriend received a strange message on his iPhone the other week. It came up as a text message from 'unknown' and it had an offensive message attached. I don't have an iPhone but he says it came through like Tap Zoo does if that makes any sense?? Anyway he swiped it and put his password in and the message just automatically opened into a link to a offensive video and the message sent implicated me as the person in the video! I don't want to go into details but I'm sure you can imagine! Fortunately my boyfriend could work out that it wasn't me but he was unsure at first so it's very disturbing as obviously it must have been sent by someone who has seen me on numerous occasions as the likeness was uncanny but it also has to be someone who is a close friend of my boyfriend as there are not many people who have his mobile number. Whoever has done this has done it in a very malicious way because of the message attached and also in the way they have done so they can't be traced. My boyfriend contacted O2 to find out if they could work out who it was but they have been working on de coding it for the last week and are coming up with nothing. They said they can see the message coming in at 3.15am but they can't work out what it is or where it's from or how someone has done this.
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Neither of us can understand why someone would do this to us and want to break us up in this way but it is obviously someone close to us which is really screwing our heads up and we really need to find out who has done this so we can have some closure on it.

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