"Ok, so you were caught "red handed" and still holding the gun. What we need to do is find someone else responsible for supplying you with the gun that hadn't confirmed your ability to use it responsibly." It could be seen as their fault and not yours.
Although off topic in another thread, lead off topic by JPB, I would like to point out that there's no crime in anyone having a server at home. No crime in setting up a server for anyone at their home. Any crime involved would instead be in how they used that server.
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