go for the High Definition camcorder. The reasons you listed would have definitely convinced me to buy the better one. Why skimp on quality? The Canon HV20 is a very nice camcorder. Have a look at the camcorder who won four awards HERE.
I have been struggling for the past few weeks over whether to purchase a high definition vs. standard definition camcorder. I am purchasing this camcorder mostly for home movies of my son. I have a high-definition television at home. I have narrowed it down to the sony DCR-HC96 for standard defintion vs. the canon HV 20 for hi defintion.
I recognize that this is certainly an "apples vs. oranges comparison". I am drawn to the Canon because a) it has fantastic reviews and the latest technology b) it is more "future proof" than the sony c) I would hate to regret not having the maximum quality home movies in twenty years d) I am concerned that standard def home video would look crappy on my television.
Mitigating this, however, are several considerations-- a) I could save about $250 by going with the sony and it is at my initial price point b) the high definition video uses substantion resources in terms of processing power, hard drive space, etc. c) there is a good chance that much of my viewing of video would be on a computer screen and not on a hi-def TV.
I have been back and forther on this issue to the point where I pulled the trigger on the Sony last night and cancelled it. Please advise.

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