Sounds suspiciously like spyware if you ask me. What sorts of programs do you use to ward off such things?
I am having problems - regular programs I am using including Outlook Express suddenly lose their active status, even in the middle of typing a message and I have to click on them again to be able to finish typing. The couple of games I have tried actually, minimize right down to the taskbar. In both conditions this is happening fairly frequently. Anyone have an idea of what could be causing this?

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