budget include tripod and other steadying devices, wireless and wired mics, high capacity battery, and lights?
What are the expected lighting conditions of the wedding?
Indoors or outdoors?
Day or night?
Will editing be required? On what computer with what video editor?
The camcorder is just one part of a bigger system.
How much experience do you have using a camcorder?
Your post is similar to looking for recommendations for a pickup truck without telling us what the truck is expected to carry...
I am looking for the best hd camcorder I can get for under a grand to record for my sister in laws wedding. I been looking at the Canon HF S21 and the Panasonic HDC-TM700. Can anyone please help me I need an answer soon. If anyone can please link me with sites so I can get a good deal thank you..

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