...you won't get suggestions for ideal settings. Have you tried looking here on CNET for a Sony 4100 review or doing a Google search for the same? Often the review, given by an expert, gives suggested settings. Until you get a calibration disc, try putting everything at 50, put the Energy Save mode ON and put the picture setting on Standard and not Vivid.
Does anybody out there have ideal settings? I don't have a calibration dvd and not sure I am eyeballing this thing right? Thanks!

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