So far, the perfect camera does not exist.

The Fujifilm F30, F31fd, F50fd

comes the closest to what you want.

While their low light performance is not as good as a $600 camera, it is better than other small digital camera.

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The Canon A570IS, A630. A640, A710IS meets all of your wants except their low light performance is no better than any other small digital camera.

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