I don't think they have built the camera you desire, yet.
I can't find anything under $1,000 that will give you low shutter lag, good low light performance, fast shot-to-shot time, and HD video.
If you forget the HD video, the new Canon S90 and G11 fit the description.
If you forget the good low light performance, the Canon SX20 or the Panasonic FX48.
Regarding camera for kids.
What age kids?
What price range?
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I am looking to buy 3 digital camera's.
One is for my wife. The main problem with the digital camera's we have is that it takes so long to take a picture we have the Nikon cool pix s550. We would like to be able to point and shoot multiple pictures or take on quickly. We would use the camera for every day use inside outside ect. Any of the latest features would be great HD video, wifi or what ever else is new.
The other 2 is for my kids. Again the main thing is picture taking speed.

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