I am not sure where this post belongs but I think this is the best place. What I am trying to do is connect to my Ubuntu machine using remote desktop connection from a windows computer with my flash drive. In other words I want to be able to plug my flash drive into any windows computer and be able to control my Umbuntu machine. Here are the steps I have done so far.
1. I went to system>preferences>remote_desktop and turned remote desktop connection on.
2. I set up my computer to receive an ssh connection with the command "sudo apt-get install openssh-server" which as I understand completely makes my computer ready for an ssh connection.
3. I signed up with DynDNS to create a free host name. When I was signing up it asked what ip address I wanted to connect to. It also said the ip address of your current location is 76.24.221.56. I just used the ip address that they gave me (this could be my problem).
4. I installed two windows programs on my flash drive. TunnelierPortable and TightVNC. Tunnelierportable is to create an ssh connection to my computer and TightVNC is for the remote desktop connection. When I use tunnelierportable to connect to my host name it says that my host name has "actively denied the connection" and thats as far as I have gotten (all I did was open the program, type my host name, then click connect).
As you can see there are a number of places where I may have messed up to cause that actively denied message or possibly there is a step that i didn't do. If anyone has any ideas as to how to make this work let me know. It would be greatly appreciated.

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